"Thou shalt not extinguish thine anger, but shall master it,
that thy conscience may not be blunted by adjustment
to wrong causes." -The Dutch Ten Commandments to Foil the Nazis
LINK: I pass along this article on Mr. Darcy without comment, because the only way to say much more about it is by explaining what exactly I think is wrong with the Mr. Darcy model, and that's rather too personal for a blog. I will note the contemporary version of this comes from Say Anything: if you run in a particular circle, you know you will be forever compared to Lloyd Dobler.