19.4.04

LINK: I wonder if Our Girl has thoughts on this, what with her dating a rabid Republican:

"When my wife and I were first dating, our politics were quite different (although she did at least hear me out on my erstwhile allegiance to the ACLU, a sentiment which has subsequently waned considerably). The point is that it was those discussions - which often lasted for several hours - which deepened our interest in one another. Setting certain things "off limits" in a relationship seems somewhat odd; you're taking stuff off the table before dinner's over. It's one thing to establish ground rules about conversations, or to be respectful of a difference of opinion, but to say "We don't talk about this?" Sounds decidedly unhealthy."

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